She has compounded the issue with real world consequences. Babies don't deserve it. Maybe she will give it up to someone who really wants a child. Once upon a time that would ahave been me...but I would never want to raise a child solo...a child needs both: mother and father. I grew up in that secure cocoon and I have always felt loved...I know I was always loved and wanted.
Maybe now is the time to counsel her to think about her choices (NOT abortion)....clearly the OM is in it for the good times...doubt if he will want the baggage. Be her friend in this. Offer her solutions...even though you KNOW you won't take her back.
It is not the end all. God is trying to tell you something.
Vali
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
