We've had such talks before. I've talked about how boring things have gotten in the bedroom, and she makes an effort to change ... for a while. Then things settle into the same old rut again. The fact is, I am turned on by a lot of things that don't do anything for her at all, and most of the time (by her own admission) sex is the last thing on her mind.

We have never seen eye to eye about it, and while we have grown a lot over the years, the sexual connection still isn't there ... \:\( I resent her for not being the person I want sexually, and am hoping I don't have to feel that way for the rest of my life.