Holy crap man! I've been sitting her for 10 minutes thinking of the ramifications of this. None of which are good. Your W hasn't run in to a brick wall, she has crashed through the brick wall and run off a cliff.
Unbelievable. I feel for you and your family.
You are totally right about the OM. If he is only 24 he'll be out of there within a couple of months. That will leave you W in a downward spiralling mess. If it does take a crisis to wake them up, don't be surprised if as soon as OM is outta there, she is running back to you. I'm afraid you have some hard choices ahead.
Unbelievable.
Last edited by Imageer; 07/06/0701:22 AM.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford