How do you stop someone from feeling trapped in a marriage? She feels trapped. She is not able to leave when she wants to. And although I want to save my marriage, how can someone that feels trapped be happy? I have been DBing, and we have been getting along, but I know she is going along as to keep the peace until she can file.
Like I said before, all you can do is worry about you and do what you need to do for you. How she feels is on her and you can't do anything about that. Her feelings are not right or wrong, they just are. But the Important thing is that feelings change and that's the reason that all of us are here. Give it some time, her feelings didn't change for you overnight and she won't change them back overnight.
She wants to see other people. But she no longer wants to do it as long as we are married. How do you fight that?
Again you need to do things for you, you can't control her actions. Keep working on changing you and let your changes stick, she will notice, PMA!
Me: 37 WAW: 31 M: 6 Years No Kids BOMB: 9/4/06 D: 9/16/07 my sitch
