Today I come home from work. I here her laugh through door. I come in and she is on the phone, witch is not unusual these days, I look at her and say who is it and she gives me the look shrug meaning it's him(she doesn't deny it). I went back in the entryway put something down and when I walked back in the house I looked at my 16 year old daughter and said loudly "Honey im Home!". My daughter laughed a little because she sometimes walks in and says that also. Then my wife gets off the phone and says she didn't know what time it was. At that point I should have walked away, I was beside myself, my hands are still shaking. Some more words where said, not sure what, i'm not thinking clearly. I told her I never stopped loving her. She said how can you love someone who has basicly ignored you for two months. I said I just think about us and how it could be if I was allowed to show it/prove it. Then she got into something about am I just supposed to drop it meaning her new relationship. At that point I finally remembered 180 and said I couldn't talk right now.
This is our house I would like more respect.
What would be a better way to handle this situation?
Me 37 W 37 D21 D17 D12 S8 grandparents 7/07 boy Married 16 yrs last June 07 Bomb dropped 4/07
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt
