Bit, I think it is. My W did almost the exact same thing 1 mos. ago. I let my expectations get the best of me and I get disappointed every time. Don't worry about W and why she does what she does. I know its hard but you have to start detaching and go dark again. See what happens. I would also apologize sincerely if you think it would do any good. Just tell her you aren't at your best right now and let it go at that.
