Thanks again Mike. I really appreciate your insight. Let's hope all the stupid things that he has done, help me get what I want out of the D. I know that it is wishful thinking to think that I can get everything that I am asking for, but maybe if I give a little, he will bite because God knows he doesn't want to pay an attorney all kinds of money and have to disclose everything. This story is pretty crazy and he is only going to look worse and worse. I am a numbers person, so he should know better than to try and hide things from me. I am thinking that I am going to ask my attorney if what I want is reasonable. If not, I think that I will start by offering him about $5,000 worth of company stock that I have. That way, he could sell it and he wouldn't have to wait around for me to refinance the house to get his equity. Also, in his D papers, it said that I had to refi the house within 2 years and he would quit claim the deed to me. I read somewhere that there is a way to take someone's name off of a mortgage without refinancing if the person staying on the loan could qualify by themselves. I am sure that I can qualify for the outstanding balance of our mortgage by myself. Does anyone know anything about this?


M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07
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