Mike, Thanks for the support. I completely agree that this is my only option at this time. This OW is definately pulling strings. God knows that she would have no trouble completely taking over my life including living in my house (it's much nicer than hers). The only way that is going to happen is over my dead body. I never wanted this to get nasty, but I'm afraid that it might. The only hope left is that my H will have a complete change of heart and character when he is facing the reality of divorce and losing me forever.
Is it considered hiding assets because he gave her money for the down payment on the house when his name is not tied to the house in anyway? His comment to me when I found this out was, "Well I'm not stupid, after we get divorced, I'm going to put it in my name so you can't get any of it in the divorce". I thought, why the hell would I want anything to do with that house. He couldn't have bought that house on his own without disclosing that he was married and he would have never gotten approved for a loan because he was unemployed at the time. He actually has done quite a few things to it to improve it's value, so he has stuck quite a bit of money and time into this house, so I think that he hiding assets and the OW is definately behind this mess. I know this can't hurt me in the divorce, but can it help me much either?
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