IMP- He has apologized in the past, and has been remorseful, but I'm not really sure that he has made amends. What exactly does "make amends" mean?

I've always had a problem with the fact that at his GA group he does not have a sponsor. I thought the 12 step programs all had sponsors.

He has said that he thinks that since I don't trust him now, then I won't ever trust him. I'm working on it, but I don't know what actions I could take to trust him. It just has to happen over time, right?


me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08