IMP- He has apologized in the past, and has been remorseful, but I'm not really sure that he has made amends. What exactly does "make amends" mean?
I've always had a problem with the fact that at his GA group he does not have a sponsor. I thought the 12 step programs all had sponsors.
He has said that he thinks that since I don't trust him now, then I won't ever trust him. I'm working on it, but I don't know what actions I could take to trust him. It just has to happen over time, right?