I do hope it helps -- look into the healing separation too if you can afford to buy the book (or if you can find it on some bookstore shelf or local library).
I was wondering if, as a WAW, you could look at something that happened to me on Tuesday night that I posted. I'm sure it's not a big deal and that I'm investing a lot of hope in it when I shouldn't be, but if you could read it and give me your two cents on it I would greatly appreciate it. link