In need of help

[sadhearted]

Well my H emailed my earlier today to ask if the kids had a good 4th. About 2 hours later (normally I'd respond right away) I simply said yeah they had fun. He then said "it was weird not having a cook out or a day in the pool or fireworks".... Though I feel like saying this was your choice I won't. I'll continue to be nice but aloof. Gotta say it was "weird" on this end too not having him around.