I am going to check with my lawyer and see what I can do. I am so sorry that you have to go through this as well. It still shocks me how many people are in our situations, it is so sad that families are just thrown away because of other's selflishness. My thoughts are always with you.
I didn't tell OW. I have told her once, she knows how I feel about her being around my babies. It doesn't matter what I say....they will do what they "think" is right. I have to keep reminding myself to go about my life and keep doing what I am doing, because in the end, I will be the one on top; even though it is a difficult and and treacherous hike, I will make it and you will too.
