I've only read your last two posts, but I have to say that based on them I think your H is a very inconsiderate and insensitive man (and yes, a pig). He wants his to have his cake and eat it too, but I also have to say that your weak moment text last week didn't help things at all. However, that being said, he should've been more respectful towards you and your feelings.
The turning off the electricity when you have kids in the house is ABSOLUTELY UNACCEPTABLE, and says a lot about his character besides his cheating ways. I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this. How stressful he is making your life right now! I think it was great that you rejected his advances, because now he will have to respect you and your boundaries. He saw in the text from last week that you are willing to be the woman he wants in the bedroom, so if you have met all of his other wants/needs in the M, he may be willing to come back at some point and give it another shot. However, he needs to see that he will have to make a recommittment to the M, and that he can't just see you for a lunch time quickie and call it good.
