My H left me a message at work this morning to open up my IM and talk /w him. We talked all morning and I tried to say bye a few times b/c I really had alot work to do. He as always complained about his finances. I told him many times I wanted to sit and write up a budget for us but he never wanted to. I said months ago I wanted to help him out even if i had to be on a strict budget and watch every dollar & I thought I could help him w/ not much but w/ maybe 300 to 400 a month towards the house. He said really you never told me that before? he seemed interested /w the idea. I know this is a big worry for him and he had told my mom he was tired of paying all the bills...well he makes 30grand more thant I do..duh I can only pay so much,like the daycare,groceries, my car & insurance and everything the girls need. He called the electric to turn it back on after I told him to just add my name to the account & later he can take his name off so I can then take it over.
H insisted I meet him for lunch at our house, but would not say why. I told him I had a lunch appointment(yes its true) & I would not know if I can make it at that time. He insisted this was the only time he had and to please come see him. I said r u serving me w/ the papers? B/c you can do that after work I said,no its not that. I said if he was going to hurt me I was not going. H- no I would not be discussing that over the IM. M- But your not discussing it, your being secretive! I said ya know this thing happens all the time & since you don't want me you only want the kids....I guess I need to make sure I have a Living Will & life insurance in place just in case. No just come over ok?
We met and he was taking his sweet 'ol time as I asked what he wanted. He was looking all thru the house & I sked him what he was looking for & he said to make sure I hadn't moved or packed anymore of his stuff. He said you see what happedns when you do. I told him I was finishuinbgwhat he started by helping him pack his clothes. I don't need your help! Nicely I told him you see & you say I am crazy? who is being revengeful here w/ turning off the electric? H threw me on the bed and kissed me for a good while full of passion, but I was not "feeling it". He tried to take my top off & told him this was not going to happen. I said that why he has her for. He reminded me of the text I sent him a week ago.I had sent him a "naughty" message w/ his "fantasy" of which it included stuff he had said not too long ago of what he wanted me to always do to him. That nite I waas feeling really bad after we had a long discussion about his finances and I was down & feeling guilty for alot of things so I textd not really expecting him to come home or anything or call me back b/c I knew he wouldn't, but to maybe just maybe let him know I can be the woman he wants in bed. I told him yes I sent the message in a weak moment. H- well I am having a weak moment right now. Again I said no then you have her for that weak moment. M- What am I suppose to do the next time I have a weak moment?I said I guess I will have to learn to pleasure myself now or just keep fantasizing. Fantasizing about who? Well ya know old boyfreinds, the usual stuff. I kept turning him down several times. Finally I was saying goodbye when he said he was staying in bed for a little longer & would take a nap. I leaned over to kiss him on the cheek and he grabbed me closer and gave me a hard, long hug. Said to kiss all his girls for him.
GUYS!! WTH?? IS this a man just beign a PIG or what????Can I get some males clarification please?
