We got this convo going because you said that a boundary was the same thing as a threat.
So I give you an example of a boundary, and you tell me it isn't comparable. So, I'll ask again. Where is the threat you saw in what I wrote to my bf.
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Life would be far worse divorced than married.
How do you know? Have you and Mrs. Cac divorced? You can only imagine and project.
And... divorce is only one possible outcome. Like I said, you must have very little respect and faith in Mrs. Cac to think she would let you get to the point of actually divorcing her.
And you didn't answer my question.
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Cac, which would you be more willing to respond to:
"Cac, get your sorry azz off that couch and take out the fcking garbage. NOW!"
OR
"Cac, could you please take out the trash for me? It's overflowing and I need some help."
I think both sentences are clearly communicating what it is I want. I'm not most women. So. Which, to you, would you be more willing to respond to, or would it not matter to you?
And like I said before, the issue with my bf is NOT about golf.
