Hi Nomo. Thanks for the reply. The MC was supposed to meet with each of us alone last week but didn't. Just met with the two us to do an excercise about control. I haven't had a chance to speak with him 1 on 1 yet. Also H was supposed to ask about seeing him for an IC as well but that didn't happen either. As far as DR, since H is reluctant I didn't mention to the C in front of him. Now C is on vacation for two weeks so I guess it will have to wait until then.
I am very depressed and hurt that he is acting like a child about this. Mostly because he is withholding access to my D4 as some type of punishment. Yes, i could get the courts involved and then it wouldn't be an issue but I was hoping he would be mature enough not to have to go that route.
I don't know if I can keep extending the olive branch. I have almost had it and just want to quit myself.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.