Thanks Lin. I am meeting with an attorney, but not necessarily going to file. I need to protect myself financially. We have quite a bit of assets and my H has already dissapated a bunch of his portion. We had a verbal agreement on how we would split things, and it is time for me to see what my options are.
Yes, we were high school sweethearts. We met at 16/17 and married at 22/23. Neither of us had serious relationships before ours. He may be 28 now, but he has no other relationship experience and this OW has plenty and took advantage of his inexperience. She has brainwashed him and ruined his life.
Not that I am glad to hear that your H was insane, but it definately makes me feel a little better, hearing other H's behaved the same way. Somedays I think that I am the one that is crazy, but then I realize it is him that is making me like this. I am going completely dark and removing myself from his drama. It's amazing how fast a normal person can turn into a crazy person. Just the other day, one of my coworkers told me that her counsin's wedding was cancelled because the bride married someone else 2 weeks before their wedding. They had been together for 3 years and engaged for 1 year.
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