I asked the same question awhile back. I feel (and Theo is most likely going to hit me over the head because I am saying this) bur the difference between our spouses coming on line, finding someone and having an EA. is that they are thinking about themselves. They are only looking for something to make them feel happy. WE on the other hand come here to find someone to help us make our marriages / relationships work. I can not deny I do have emotional feelings for many of you here that have helped me and I hope I have help. But it is more of a brother sister kind of emotional bond. I have not told my W anything about this board. It’s because we have not reached this level of communication. If we had I probably would not be here. Also we can ask questions of the opposite sex here that I for one could not ask in person. It is also a place that people can no hide behind their "everyday I need to survive" attitude. I think it is a little easier for the men on this board to show how we are really little boys inside.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
