Oh GK, I'm sorry to hear your pain.

You can let go of your old marriage and that is good. That is over. BUT, you have a whole new future ahead of you and have the ability to make choices on what you want.

It may not be the end w/your W. Papers are nothing if we want to make honest changes. I agree w/IMP, stand back for a bit. Hard? Yes. But, that makes the victory even sweeter!

It is never to late if that is what YOU choose. You can decide to GAL which doesn't include another relationship. That is YOUR choice. It doesn't mean you are a fool. You are honorable for making choices based on what YOU feel and not what others THINK you should feel. You are a strong, kind and respectable man. Be down right now. BUT, pick yourself up and keep walking. We all know you will!

Love and hugs to you today! bambam


Me-BS 38
X-WS 36
Separated 11/15/2006
Filed for D 8/1/2007
Divorce Final 12/21/2007
S13, S13 (twins), D9
Married 13 Yrs
Together 20 Yrs