Atlas,

Looks like your on the right tracks. I'm in a similar situation and the temptation to discuss, discuss, discuss with anyone is overwhelming, but stick with the advice given here. I'm certainly going to look at adapting some of it to my situation.

Paul

Married 16
Know 21
Kids m8, f5

Bomb: 4/07
Despair to Hope: 4/07 - ongoing

Never, ever give up

Current Sitch