Well I don't think you should of asked her, just told her. I know it makes it all difficult, but she is going to be going through this possibly for a long time. Need to protect the little ones best we can.
You are right. I am working more on making statements instead of asking her what we should do. I am taking control of my life. My plan when D3 is crying is to just hurry up and leave. It just makes it difficult on her to stay there and try to literally beg her if she doesn't want to go at that moment. My W needs to see what reality is and that this will affect D3.
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
