Sounds like you did great! Way to go. No matter what she decides (there are no guarantees, and you can't control her), this should position you for the best possible R.

On the filing online, all you can really do is stay calm and stall. Say you need to think about it. Buy time.

Good for you!
Nomo

M 39
W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
S 6-11
No more C
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