Why does he keep leaving? I would suggest that you read "Love & Respect". This is a great need that talks about what guys expect in a marriage. My W loved the book, we read it together. She learned a lot when we reconciled.
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Who's to say this time he really does mean it. I mean how many times can a person do this and not follow thru?
We are creatures of habits. If he did this 4 times before, he is coming back. He may want freedom, but once he gets it, he is afraid and will come running back. Let him go and you'll get him back.
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He has a lot of baggage from childhood and his first marriage that I think contribute to his leaving so much.
Can you elaborate?
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