Hopeless,

Maybe I used the wrong word. I don't think anybody is "lucky"

Just because you don't have kids you have felt the same hollow empty hurt on your stomach that I felt when I found out. Yes without kids your road is different than mine but it still is not an easy one, just different.

It's again the half full half empty glass thing. Yes I do have to think of my son and the effect this will have on him. But....on the other hand I have my son for my best friend.
You don’t have kids to worry about but then who do you have? (Besides us). I hope I am hot making you feel bad it is just that all of us have pros and cons to our sitch. Yoyo was served paper you could look at it as well she is near the end of this journey and can move on. At one point I envy her. But then again I have not been served so there is still a chance for me but I am getting tired of the uncertainty. so see I guess it's the old saying if ya got lemons make lemonade. (It's been in the 100s here today could sure use some)

Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know