Sorry but a 3 year old should not decide who or where they are going to stay. That is the parents job. She should not be asking her questions like that, she is in no position to understand what is going on, but she knows that she is being made to decide at times and that is just not good.
I feel optimistic with this at this point. My W is very co-dependent with D3. The last time that we separated for 6 months and got back together, my W told me that it was so hard to be without D3. She always missed her and wanted her to be with her. My W does see that this separation is affecting D3 and this may cause her to start to consider her actions. To take come accountability or something. My W use to have D3 24/7. She is able to take D3 to work with her all day. She was always with D3 unless she I was with her and she had an errand or appointment. Now she is without her a lot now and she is so emotionally unstable. Oh well, this is reality and she is experience the reprocussions of HER decision to leave the marriage. She fails to see that she is the one now making the poor choice.
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
