Yeah I'm not sure how no contact works either. Something about maybe they start missing you because they aren't hearing from you like before. I mean I've seen that when I back off at some point he'll contact me. I just don't get HOW that works.
Trust me I know. I want to send an email or if I see him online strike up an IM conversation. Last couple weeks I just kinda slap myself and say no.
When I see my H I am friendly and smiling. I normally wait to see if he's going to strike up a conversation if not then I leave him be. Not an easy task but... Maybe wait to see how she acts. If I know I'm going to see him I try to look a little better. Sorry I'm not more help. Kinda short on advice. Don't know if I have any since I'm in the same boat.
Yeah I know he will. I'm going to throw one in I took of me with the kids. (shame on me)
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07