Nothing aginst your H but at least your D knows what she does not want. My D's know something is not right. They know I am the one trying to save the marrage. They DON'T know want my W did. It is really hard doing this on my own.
Maybe we should make a mailing list of all the men and women that have posted on this site and use it as a dating service.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know