Gracey, I know exactly how you feel. My H had a cookout for his employees and few other people this past Friday. He asked my DD's to come. Not only was the OW/secretary there, she had her adult daughter with her as well. H's parents and sister were there also. I got really upset all I could think of he's trying to make them one big family. My daughter said don't worry about it Mom we didn't talk to her or even look at her. My girs were gone less than an hour and that includes driving over there and back. My H's cousin was there, he said he could tell my girls were very uncomfortable. What does my H expect, that they are going to be fine with the woman that played a key role in the break up of their parents.
I know some people have put in their separation/divorce agreements that there are to be no overnight visits with OP. You might could check into this and have it say not visits with OW at all, I don't know enough about it. My children are older so I don't have to worry about them being around her. I'm so sorry that you are going through this. You are right it is sickening.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
