Thanks Scott. I really appreciate you posting the questions. I have a couple of weeks to prepare, so I will try to pull it all together by then. Hopefully being a smart girl pays off in this divorce. Like you, I make more money than my H and even though he is the one that is committing adultery and taking no responsbility for his life, I'll probably lose out. Life's just not fair.
Well, I braved the world today. I went to a party with my niece. I had a good time. It was nice to go out and be able to hold my head high. There were a few awkward moments, but what can you expect when you are living in a soap opera. The one guy actually asked my niece in front of me. How is your Uncle xxxx (my H) doing? I heard he got a new job. My jaw about hit the floor. I thought the guy knew who I was, but people are so oblivious sometimes, they don't recognize me without my H. Needless to say, someone told him later who I was, and he said you could have told me that before I put my foot in my mouth. Another guy just asked me if I was still living at my house and what I was up to. There were quite a few people there that have been through divorces, so they completely understand. They invited me again to something on Saturday, so I am thinking that I will probably go. There will be a lot more people at this thing, but I think that I need to get out there. I didn't do anything wrong, no sense being a prisoner in my own life. It's all about GALing right?
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"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
