What a great way to celebrate bad anniversary! And you didn't even make him take you to a chick film!
And Husband-- I can tell you're a good guy, and I know it hurts. I really think you have a good chance of reconciliation, and THEN you'll have something to celebrate! You'll be glad you showed some moral fiber, because I honestly think that you're going to end up happier than my H. I'm not saying this because I think I'm necessarily the right person for my H, and that he'll end up missing me. He may be with the right person now, for all I know. But he seems so bent on self-destruction--with drugs, booze, whatever--that I can't help but think he's got a rough road ahead.
