I can't even imagine my life without my H. I really hope it doesn't come to that. This is about the 4th time he's left. Every time before he's come back so people tell me this is probably just another cycle and if I wait long enough he'll come back. But there are no certainities in life. Who's to say this time he really does mean it. I mean how many times can a person do this and not follow thru? He has a lot of baggage from childhood and his first marriage that I think contribute to his leaving so much. The only person that thinks this is for the best is him. Everyone else sees that this isn't going to make him happy. But... no one can control him but him.
It sounds like you may be able to wait her out. I mean it doesn't sound like you're ready to give up any time soon. Same here. We just have to hope and pray they eventually will discover their families mean everything to them.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
