Okay, so here is a question??? My H is having OW around my babies. They are doing "family" things together. This makes me sick to my stomach. I want to call her and tell her to stay away from my children, however, I have already told her how I felt about her being around them. Do I do it again, or ignore it? My 11 year old step-daughter is also being thrown into all of this. It is so sickening!!!