\:\) At least they came around to you. My in laws haven't. They can be all nice and pleasant to my face but it's all an act.

I would hope your BIL would remain friends with you since you were before the whole family connection. I know my SIL tells me even if we both end up divorced (she's married to H brother) we'll still be SIL. Very nice to hear.

Why can't our spouses see what they're doing to everyone? Mine at the moment is being selfish and I would imagine that's the case for just about everyone. All he can think about is how he's miserable and thinks he needs out. Problem is he's out and still miserable. So hopefully in time he'll realize it wasn't just me making him miserable.

W: 33
H: 37
SS: 14
S: 7
S: 3
married 08/09/97
Seperated 11/02 05/07
H moved back 8/26/07