20 minutes? Did they forget about you or just hoping you'd go away.
I didn't get the whole story for months. I am 9 years older than her, at the time she was just 21, and I almost 30, you could tell the age gap. Well I went over and knocked on her door, her mom answered and said she would get her. Well that is all I knew, called her later and we met but I did not say what had happened, didn't want to start any problems. Her mom told me later that she knew me from where I worked, new I was divorced, and had heard that her daughter had babysat for my ex-wife and I on occasion. So when she saw me, she freaked out and told herself that her daughter was not going to be going out with a 30yr old divorced guy with a son. She went in and sat down and decided not to tell her that I was at the door, hoping I would go away, which I did. As time went on she actually ended up loving me, so did her husband, and took my son in as if he were there own grandson. So as time went on they almost took on the parents roll for me too since I am not close to mine at all. The other thing that makes this whole thing a big mess is that after my divorce I moved in with a friend, who happened to start dating my current wifes sister. So my best friend then became my BIL. The 4 of us use to do everything together when we all lived in the same town and him and I have remained best friends. I am not just afraid of losing my wife, I am afraid for my son to lose a lot of people he has grown very close too. I am afraid of losing my "adopted" parents if you want to call it that, I am afraid of losing my BIL who is my best friend, and my SIL also who I am close too. Also being divorced already with one son, I know because he already lives in a different part of the state that if we get divorced that my 2 sons who are close will be losing lots of time together. It is not just a divorce of two people, it is a whole fricken family.
On the outside trying to look in.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
