Thank you for that. I'm pretty confident that he's not done as much as he says it but it's nice to have input from other people to help convince me of it. Though since I've stopped trying to talk about us he hasn't really said anything about our situation. And the little he has said makes me think he's thinking. I'm just having a down day with it being the holiday and all.
Most of the time I can let what he says just roll off. I still have my times though that I think it's hopeless. Yeah listening to him you'd think our entire 11 years have been negative. Now I know it hasn't been and he knows it too he just can't see the good right now.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
Though since I've stopped trying to talk about us he hasn't really said anything about our situation. And the little he has said makes me think he's thinking. I'm just having a down day with it being the holiday and all. 
