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I feel for the kids also, but at the moment nothing I can do.
But I see a big difference, he is the one doing it to himself and his choice to lose that contact. I don't have that choice. I am sitting here remember how I met her parents, a hilarous story of her answering the front door, me asking for my wife, date at time, her saying okay, closing door supposedly to get her, 20 minutes later I finally left when no one came back to door.