It stopped raining yesterday, and we are having a sunny day today.
Don't worry about backsliding, it will happen alot.
Hope things are going better for you in regards to your detaching, giving your W space and not instigating anything in regards to your R with her. I think you just need to back off completely and let her sort herself out.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."