I have the same feeling about my W's OM. She is so blind to see that he has not committed to any relationships he has had with women closer to his own age.
I don't know why she thinks he may commit with her, and DD, and having me in his life (as DD's parent), her extended family (that values M, and still love me) etc etc.
Also the fact that she may not be able to have any more children due to a medical condition she has had for several years, I wonder how honest she has been with him in regards to this fact.
She is off to Canberra for a week's holiday. I am looking forward to being alone with DD and having the house to ourselves. The funny thing is, there is "normality" when she is not around in regards to DD and myself.
You mentioned Ashton Kutcher/Demi Moore fantasy. How right you are. Only thing is that at least Ashton Kutcher can support Demi's lifestyle. I don't think my W's OM will be able to, poor bastard
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
