Yeah I'm glad they are taking this as well as they are. Though My S7 thinks daddy has an apartment for a year and then will be home. So he has no doubt one day we'll all be here together.

I know I really don't like that I know what I want which is my marriage but have no say in whether I get to keep it. It took both of us to say I do but only one of us to say no I don't.

I agree I think when you're as emotional as we all are including our spouses that is not the time to make life changing decisions. Course my H isn't talking D or rushing to file paperwork (his words) but he also isn't talking like he wants to come back. Though last couple days it really does sound like he's thinking.

I hear ya I know I want my family. Just have to hope my H realizes he does too.

Vent all you want. Better here then to your W. \:\)


W: 33
H: 37
SS: 14
S: 7
S: 3
married 08/09/97
Seperated 11/02 05/07
H moved back 8/26/07