Yes, it is a good book, whether you are at the "after the affair" stage yet or not. It gives some good insight into both sides of the story. Also, for us girls, there's a book by that radio chick, Laura Scheslinger, or whatever her last name is that's called something like "The Care & Feeding of a Husband." I finally took it back to the library b/c I can only handle one non-fiction at a time, but I'm going to get it again after I'm done w/ the affair one. Maybe it will give me some good insight on Husbands as well.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10