Respond in agreement. She doesn't want to be buddies or anything YET.
Cool.
Don't believe anything they say and 1/2 of what they do.
First step towards being buddies is being in agreement. Let her work through the pain. Deserved or not, she feels you broke trust. Nothing but time will heal that, so give it time and space. Let her miss you. Do it in an honoring, loving way. In full agreement, happily and quickly. Anything she is saying now is a defense mechanism to protect that part of her that trusted and was hurt as a result. Is that the whole entire truth of your situation? Of course not. Yet because she perceives things in this way you have to deal with it until her head is clear and she can see properly that you are trustworthy, she can be open to you and you won't hurt her.
So, diligently pursue peace. Agree, be happy, and listen with patience and love. Agree quickly so you move towards becoming a safe place again for her.
We know this doesn't mean to sign anything or get lawyers involved quickly. This means to agree with her and allow strife to cease, quickly. Getting congruent with her is the only way to get on the ally side of things.
Don't allow your emotions to run you dude, we all know how destructive that can be. A friend said to me, let your emotions subside before you decide. It was his grandmothers mantra.
