No apologies needed. Counselling last night and whilst there was no major progress, a little step was made (or I could be reading the signs wrong). Planning to go out just the 2 of us this week and will discuss the Sex issue.
I will play it positively, I enjoy it, she enjoys it - lets enjoy it together. If she says no, act as though its no great big deal and keep with the 180.
Looking forward to holidays with children (seperate partly by necessity) and some time together, so will see how that progresses.