My situation is so complicated. I guess that's why it confuses me and hurts so much. The affection and desire just stopped so suddenly. I was prepared for it at all. It didn't just dwindle off...it stopped! I know it seems strange, but honestly, porn and masturbation are not the problem I don't think. He never did like porn, and wasn't the type of guy to masturbate. Said he'd rather have the "real" thing. But of course, I know, he could be lying as well. On computers, he is more into sports than anything else. I just wish there were some sort of explanation. I have talked to him about it. He gets angry. I thought maybe it made him feel less of a man, or he was embarrassed, and I've tried to let him know that I am here for him...that communication has to be there, that I can't be left in the dark if there is a problem, because the lack of communication affects me as well. He doesn't want to talk about it. I love him so much, and the kids love him, and we are happy in other areas, just not the intimacy part, which is important as well. Very!! I want to be with him, there for him, but I can't do this for the rest of my life, always wondering what the problem is...is it me, is it someone else?
