Thanks Gracy and Yoyowife

I can't wait for her to wake up (if she ever does) to show her that i'm not that guy. FYI, I never new exactly how bad I hurt her and that makes me feel even worse.

I have never been a reader even in high school, but lately that is all I do.
As ironic as this is, it's true, my wife bought Divorce Remedy during our bad times. I remember her having me read a little of it, I really wasn't into it at that time. Couple of weeks ago I was searching for pictures to make my own photo album and found the book, I took it and started reading. I have a little left to read but I have so many post-it notes marking stuff of interest through the book I plan to reread the whole thing. It does give me some hope in these times.
I will check out those books you suggested.

thank you


Me 37 W 37
D21 D17 D12 S8
grandparents 7/07 boy
Married 16 yrs last June 07
Bomb dropped 4/07

"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt