talked to her yesterday. of course i did the calling to invite her to stop by for my moms bday party. the next goal is to get her to start initiating some of the contact and some of the get togethers. how do i do this? back off? the anniversary of her dads death is on thurs. so i will def. have to call her and see how she is then. after that i may back of for a bit although i am anxious to get out with her. i need some serious help when it comes to pushing the right buttons now. this is where my dbing is going to make or break me.
