You do know you are posting in the mlc forum. That indicates you believe it is the nature of his behavior.
Along with reading about anger, your really need to read all you can about mlc. Not so you can cure it, you can't, no one can. But you can learn a lot about your role in it. If he is a MLCer, it is not the result of the typical ups and downs in a M. It is not the result of many mistakes on your part.
Most of all, the more you learn about mlc, the more you will understand the need to live your life and become the best person you can be, for yourself.
Take a trip because it will be wonderful and not because of anger or because it may have some kind of effect on him.
