Hopeless and Yoyo do not have to worry about dates, have you seen them in their smokin hot bikini's? They are going to be beating guys off of them with sticks.
Hopeless, going into the L consultation with a list of questions is smart..... Let me go find mine.... These are a few questions that I dug up from some website a while back.... 1. Findout their strategy and what they feel the outcome will be.(remember that they cannot promise you anything.) 2. Findout about the cost....How much does it cost when they call you, how much does it cost for you to call them, how much does it cost to talk to their paralegal, etc....... The cost and charges range so make sure they are clear to you about the cost up front. They should explain it, but if you have any questions ask them... 3. Findout the process for D from their perspective. What are the steps to expect and how do you prepare yourself for each one of them. 4. Ask them if they anticipate you incurring any costs outside of their fees? This is most likely the case for me. I make much more then my W so I might end up paying all her fees. Messed up isn't it? 5. Ask them about negotiating with your H one on one and if they feel it is good or bad idea. To be honest, for your own sanity I would not communicate with your H anymore. 6. Find out if the actions that you have already have taken hurt you or not? How about your H, has he dug himself a bigger hole? Can you you do anything that might help yourself in this process.
If you search google you can comeup with a million questions to ask your L. You are a smart girl, I am not really worried that you will be unprepared.
