would like some advice

[Yoyowife]

You know Gracey, the sad thing is the 11 year old has gone through this twice with her dad. What kind of example is he setting for her... marriage is disposeable?

Light Switch,
I agree with Gracey I wish my H of twenty years would have woke up and figured that his family is more important than OW. We have now been separated for 8 months. He filed for D two weeks ago. You might want to read Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass and perhaps The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman along with Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy. I wish you luck.