I just have to say, I am very proud of the fact that your switch came on. I hope your wife will see this, because it sounds like you two really have a chance. I wished my H light would have turned on months ago, now it is too the point where I am sick of him and want nothing to do with him. He chose OW and left his family of 3 (me and 17 month old twins). I also have a 11 old step-daughter that is having a difficult time with all of this, so he really broke up a family of 5. I wish you the best, and the only advice I can give, is to focus on yourself as much as possible.
