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I learned very quickly the little signs that were Ex's tell...

What I never learned was how to properly handle his problem....


Psa 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.
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You can't.


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hence the EX in the H!


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I believe you. My wife could honestly tell even if I had only half a beer and hour ago. I don't know how you ladies do it.



It's learned behavior.
Based on the changes alcohol causes in you.

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Originally Posted By: lost-n-found
hence the EX in the H!


Don't say that, I don't want to be an EX \:\(


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You don't have to be.

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hence the EX in the H!


Don't say that, I don't want to be an EX \:\(



Sorry.... his choice not mine... he ran and hasn't looked back. Not everyone is that far gone.

Wish you the best....


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Originally Posted By: AmyC
You don't have to be.


Doing everything I can not to be. 4 months+, I know that is only one part of the big puzzle, but it was the biggest.


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I was that far gone when it came to drinking I must say.
Just the right circumstances started to fall into place to stop, just at the wrong time. Never ran from her, just annoyed the hell out of her I am sure.


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Yes, it was.

And you've done very well.

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